HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED MEDICAL GASLIGHTING?
you learnED to be the “good patient”
NOW IT'S TIME to unlearn WHAT YOU WERE TAUGHT.

You already know that the medical system is broken, but you may not know that you WERE trained to play your half of the script.
When you read this book, you will:
✓ Recognize why medical gaslighting really happens
✓ End the self-gaslighting that many of us do after the appointment
✓ Step out of the “good patient” role you learned as a child
✓ Build a case that gets heard: the right info, in the right order
✓ Use the skills you’ve always had in the exam room
A BONUS FOR THOSE WHO PREORDER
The APPOINTMENT KIT FOR your next VISIT
From the Waiting Room to the Car Ride Home
Use This Before, During, and After Your Visit
Before: Prepare for your visit by learning the method clinicians use to ask questions.
During: Know the difference between being dismissed and a clinician who has reached the end of their toolkit.
After: Learn how to stop the self doubt and the self gaslighting that often happens after the visit.

How to get your free Appointment kit
Your guide comes to your email as soon as you send us your order number below.
You do not have to wait for the book to start using it.
STEP 2
Send us your order number
Come back to this page and fill out the form with your order number. We will email your guide to you.
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INSIDE THE BOOK
First, you’ll understand why the system is what it is. How clinicians are trained to hear your story, why “normal” results can end the conversation, and why getting a name for what’s wrong doesn’t always give you an answer.
Then you’ll see how you were trained by the same system to be a “Good Patient”
Once you understand the system and the role you were taught to play, you can use skills you already have to take back your place in your own care.
Buy your copy, share your order details, and we’ll take care of the rest.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
The book releases on March 2, 2027. Single orders typically ship within a few days, while larger orders may take a little longer.
Once you submit your order information, your digital bonus will be sent to your inbox.
You can order from the retailers listed on the page, including Amazon, Bookshop, Barnes & Noble, IndieBound, and BAM.
No. The Appointment Kit is only available through this page for readers who order here.
Yes. Go to our Bulk Orders page.
yOU DON'T HAVE TO LEARN ANY NEW SKILLS.
YOU ALREADY HAVE THEM.
Pre-order your copy of The Problem with Being a Good Patient and learn to use the skills you already have, so you walk into every appointment prepared.
BTW...If you’re a clinician, this book is still for you.
It’s written to make the conversation between you and your patients better.

